How Victim Mentality will keep you from finding joy in this lifetime & beyond

If we stay victim to our pain and place blame we will continuously give our power away to those that hurt us. When we remain in a state of victim mentality we allow that aspect of ourselves to create our reality.

We create from places of fear, anger, guilt, judgement and other lower themes of consciousness. These lower themes are frequencies that will only produce more struggle for us. The world around us will not feel safe , things will not always work out for us. We begin to believe stories that we are not loved, not understood, and not capable of having a beautiful life.

Unfortunately, holding onto victimhood causes us to be the ones that continue to live our lives in pain and suffering. Long after the events of our trauma/s have passed, the energy will still remain in our bodies.

This energy blocks our genuine creativity and our life force.

Our lives remain frozen in a repeated cycle of pain, never quite finding moments of true inner peace or joy.

We live life in a state of survival like those in the animal kingdom, staying asleep and controlled by our subconscious.

Even if we acquire “success” by societies standards, we will still feel like something is missing or we won’t truly be able to appreciate it. All of the relationships in our lives suffer, including the most important one of all -the relationship with ourselves.

The relationship to our selves is also the relationship to the God within us. Without that connection to a Higher Power we are completely separate from love. We are unable to experience the warm embrace of true love that comes without human conditions.

Being in this victim state, we are unable to feel the loving nature that was there before we were hurt and conditioned. We are unaware of the Divinity that resides inside of us just waiting to be remembered.

The movie that is our life repeats the same scenes over and over again. We attract the same types of characters that further validate the stories we have created about ourselves and our life. All of which are actually meant to be lessons that we have come here to master. Lessons that if learned would show us that we are worthy of so much more. That we are worthy to create from higher theme of consciousness , higher frequencies that are there waiting to be discovered and felt. Higher themes that can only be reached and experienced once we clear out the lower themes from hijacking our lives.

One must be willing to learn and do the inner work to make progress. One must be willing to become self aware and to escape the ego's programming by fighting out of this victimized state.

We are the only ones that have the choice to face our shadows or we will carry this pain throughout this lifetime and beyond. We will pass on our pain to our children, loved ones and friends just to come back and relive it again in our next life. The truth is that everyone has been hurt, everyone has been a victim, everyone has struggles.

It isn't necessary to compare or minimize your experience to anyone else's.

Your soul made a contract and was aware you would face struggles here on Earth and I know some of them are excruciating.

You are the only one that can release the pain. You are the only one that can change your reality.

You no longer have to allow anyone else to have control over you! If you want support know that you are not alone.

Be the hero of your life, because YOU are your greatest work.

Valerie

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